Thursday, May 28, 2020

464 + 360 Weeks

Another week has passed with a lot of drama...good news and bad. The good news is that today we bought a new car - a second hand car, but new to us.  It’s a Nissan Pulsar hatchback, and we love it.  We have been driving manual cars for over a decade, and this time I refused to get another manual.  I’ll be the one driving it, so I got what I wanted.  The kids are stoked too.  So, that’s my positive for the week!

We still haven’t heard anything from the solicitor to say the other party has signed the paperwork to buy our house.  Apparently the banks are taking 3-5 weeks when normally they’d take about 5 days.  The bank valuer did do his appraisal on Wednesday, and that’s the last step in the process, so it shouldn’t be long.  Super frustrating though!

Arley had a huge meltdown last night, one of his biggest.  I don’t love writing about this publicly, but then again, how is anyone supposed to learn about autism if the people affected by it don’t speak up? Arley is proud to be autistic, and I am proud of him, but it does come with so many struggles.  Last night was absolutely terrible, and ended up in a heartbreaking way which I won’t go into.  I have called the paediatrician’s office this morning to try to get a priority appointment, but I’m still waiting to hear.  He has been ok today, very tired, and a little oppositional.

Carmie has been quite emotional this week, but it is no wonder.  We are getting help though, with numerous appointments with different doctors lined up next month.  We are even heading for an overnight stay in Wollongong mid June to see an Ear Nose Throat specialist to get Arley’s adenoids checked.

Carmie’s hanging snaggletooth finally came out.  Maybe I should rephrase that.  I was helping her try to get it out herself, and then I “accidentally” pulled the string myself and out it came.  She will never trust me again, but her tooth is gone!  Sadly the one on the other side looks like it is headed the same way, hanging low.  She better watch out!

We made it out to Collers Beach this week, but I think that was our only fun family outing (bedsides buying the car today).  The weather has been cold and rainy, and I am so not looking forward to winter.  The rest of the week we just hung at home, besides horse riding, and the kids’ sleepover at Lolo and Dida’s.

Hoping to have better news next week!












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