Thursday, December 10, 2020

492 + 388 Weeks

It's been a good week, I think.  On Friday the kids and I ditched homeschool tennis (they much prefer our private lessons), and we went and explored the Botanic Gardens which are just downtown.  I had no idea they were going to be so big, and so beautiful!  I can't figure out how they fit downtown, as I didn't even know they were there, but once you are inside, they just go on and on.  They were really beautiful, and I'm sure we are going to have many picnics there in the future.  That afternoon the kids and I had our hair cut, and we all went really short.  Jeffrey's kinda mad about it, but we all feel so much better!  It is a little humid up here, so short hair feels way better!  

We stayed home over the weekend, did some baking, played some games, had lots of computer time... On Monday we went to the pool to meet up with some other homeschoolers.  I am starting up regular meet ups with the Coffs Harbour homeschool group, just like the Nambucca group meets up every week.  Only one other homeschool family came, and her kids were teenagers so not the best mix, but we have had quite a lot of interest, so I think there will be a lot more people next year.

On Tuesday Arley had a visit from his support worker.  I'm glad his therapy is finally starting, but now it's on hold again until the beginning of January!  He has to have a sensory assessment because he hasn't had one done since he was three, so that will be interesting.  We had family tennis on Tuesday afternoon, but Jeffrey couldn't make it because he had just tweaked his back.  That meant more balls for me, and it was so fun!  I don't think I could love it more!

The Nambucca homeschool group had their end of year camp this week, from Tuesday morning through to today.  We opted not to camp (it would not be compatible with Arley!!), but we went for the day on Wednesday.  The kids had fun, but Arley got over it quite quickly.  He gets overwhelmed among crowds very easily.  Also, there was a river they were all kayaking and swimming in (Arley took to kayaking like a champ!), but when they all started swimming, Arley found it too muddy and couldn't handle it.  Carmie had a blast until someone threw mud and it got in her eye :(  So we left, but we were all thoroughly tired, so it was time.

Today while I took the kids to horse riding (Carmie cantered again finally, and Arley has mastered the reins!!), Jeff had to get his last wisdom tooth removed.  It was actually a double tooth (ew!) and has left a massive hole so he also had to have stitches.  He brought the tooth (I should say teeth) home to add to our science collection so we can gross people out.  He is doing surprisingly well - we thought he would be in a whole lot more pain.  He is very glad it's gone, as it's been bothering him for years.  Speaking of teeth, I almost forgot, I took Arley to the dentist this week too, because he was having pain in his front tooth.  I don't remember when it was, but it must have been a good three years ago that Carmie opened the car door and hit Arley in the mouth, turning his front tooth grey.  It started to hurt for four days last week, then the pain went away.  The dentist said it is infected, but we don't know how long for because Arley has a really high pain tolerance.  This could cause problems with his adult tooth, as in it might be discoloured, or have enamel problems or be misshaped, so we have to wait and see.  He has to get the grey tooth pulled but they can't get him in until January 20th!  I have a script for antibiotics if the pain comes back.  He is a little worried but interested in the laughing gas they are going to give him.

Carmie is the same as always, growing taller and sweeter every day.  She is a pretty happy little girl, despite all that she has to deal with.  She's going to the paediatrician on Tuesday of next week, and Arley is going for a med review on Monday.  My fingers are crossed!

We have a solid week of rain ahead of us, so I think we will have lots of home time coming up!  It's quite a bummer, because we had plans this weekend to go choose our Christmas tree and get our outdoor decorations up.  Not so sure it's going to be possible!  :(

Playing with putty

At the Botanic Gardens






Miss Short Hair :)
Making cookies

Superheroes or spies?
Our day at the Nambucca camp


Night time park play :)

Horse riding this morning.  Rocking it!




Thursday, December 3, 2020

491 + 397 Weeks

 The good news this week is that Arley finally had a great horse riding lesson today!  It took an incentive (I told him he could earn himself and Carmie a TV dinner night tonight if he did everything he was supposed to).  Jann his instructor told me he put in 150%, held the reins correctly the whole time, trotted around the arena like a pro, and only asked once when the lesson would be over (as opposed to a good ten times).  Finally she was able to see a little of what he is capable of, and the best part is that he came back all smiles and is really proud of himself.

It has been a pretty good week.  The weather has been weird, crazy hot one day, windy the next, rain and storms the next.  One day we got to the Butterfly House, which was quite lovely.  I am a but squeamish around butterflies, so I have to pat myself on the back for making it through.  There is also this great maze there, so the kids had some fun getting lost.  Another day we made it back to dog beach, but the water was surprisingly cold!  Everyone else was swimming, but I couldn't bring myself to.  I reckon I'll get into my wetsuit next time, even though I'll be the only person on the beach in one.  I don't like missing out on all the fun!

Yesterday we finally made it to the Nambucca homeschool meet up after missing it for three weeks.  It was at V-Wall again, and the kids weren't super keen on going except to see their friends Charlie and Will.  The weather was a bit off, and it rained at first, then turned into a beautiful sunny day for a few hours, and then it got really windy so we wrapped it up.  Arley wasn't in the best of forms and was quite mean to another seven year old boy there.  Arley just doesn't really do well with boys his age, and this kid was following Will around, and I think Arley was a little territorial.  I made apologies, but when Arley gets set in his ways, there's no convincing him otherwise.  When it got windy we split pretty fast, as wind always sets Arley off, and he was already a bit off kilter.  He lashed out at Carmie, and that was my cue.  I can't wait until we can get him the help he needs, because he really is such a sweet boy until his anxiety kicks in.

This week we also got up to Sapphire Beach park again, and Carmie did some more tree climbing.  On the way back we went to Sealy lookout for an amazing view of Coffs, and then we went and had lunch in a cafe downtown.  Another day we made it to Sawtell beach for a swim.  It is so beautiful there!  So lovely in fact, that I went back myself the next morning for an early morning beach walk.  It was exactly what I needed.

So, all in all, a good week :)

At Sapphire Beach park










Sealy Lookout

Lunch out :)
Sawtell Beach




At the Butterfly House













Nambucca with the homeschool crew
At horse riding this morning, waiting for his lesson.